A to Z Challenge: D is for Devotion

It takes a family if not an entire village to raise a child. I'd like to add the word 'devoted' to it.

Last night I fell asleep on the sofa while watching the IPL match. Missus and Mom-in-Law had gone down with Beckett for their evening walk. I had the luxury and privilege (given by Missus) to sleep peacefully while she took care of Beckett. Similarly, Missus and I have the luxury and privilege (given by my mother and Mom-in-Law) to work peacefully throughout the day while they take care of Beckett.

It is to the extreme devotion of these three women that Beckett owes her happy life and I owe my peaceful idyllic existence. Missus has not had a complete night's sleep for the last 16 odd months and in addition to a full day's work, she also ensures that Beckett has everything that she needs while she is away. My mother has lost 6 kg (13 pounds) since she started taking full time care of Beckett. Both she and Mom-in Law are the earliest risers in the house and almost always the last ones to call it a day at night.

But what I find incredible is the dedication and discipline that all 3 of them bring to taking care of Beckett and the rest of us. It does not come from a sense of duty or obligation, but a devotion that goes beyond oneself. While there is one line of thought that seems to believe that this is a biological or genetic trait, I tend to believe that it is more personal. It is as if in raising Beckett the best way that they possibly can that they find their life's ultimate purpose.

Whereas for me, it is one of the most important things in life, but not the only thing.

To Beckett,

You will never know of all the sleepless nights and early mornings and watchful days and caring embraces and unending selflessness these 3 women have showered upon you. You will only know of them through the chronicles that your bumbling father writes as he marvels at their indefatigable energy and fortitude.

There is no way you will ever be able to thank, acknowledge, or repay them. The only thing you can hope to do is pay it forward when you find yourself in the middle of a similar situation.